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The MUTUAL BEAR Story
The MUTUAL bear was created in order to promote the project in childcare services. It is a present for the children in the placements that the partner group visited in the course of the project.
The MUTUAL bear comes from a large family of bears. He loves travelling and meeting lots of children in different countries.
The outfit of the MUTUAL bear is a hand-knitted Aran sweater and a “lederhose”. This was inspired by a book called “The Speckled People” by the Irish author Hugo Hamilton. In this novel the author illustrates the complexity of growing up with a mixed cultural background and trying to find his own identity. He manages to draw a vivid picture of his childhood where stereotyping and scapegoating were part of the everyday life. He achieves to create a breath taking story that shows the effect discrimination and exclusion has on the individual child.

Here is the key passage from the book:

“Then one day my mother and father did a funny thing. First of all, my mother sent a letter home to Germany and asked one of her sisters to send over new trousers for my brother and me. She wanted us to wear something German – lederhosen.
When the parcel arrived, we couldn’t wait to put them on and run outside, all the way down the lane at the back of the houses. My mother couldn’t believe her eyes. She stood back and clapped her hands together and said we were real boys now. No matter how much we climbed on walls or trees, she said these German leather trousers were indestructible, and so they were. Then my father wanted us to wear something Irish too. He went straight out and bought hand-knit Aran sweaters. Big, white, rope patterned, woollen sweaters from the west of Ireland that were also indestructible. So my brother and I ran out wearing lederhosen and Aran sweaters, smelling of rough wool and new leather, Irish on top and German below. We were indestructible. We could slide down granite rocks. We could fall on nails and sit on glass. Nothing could sting us now and we ran down the lane faster than ever before, brushing past nettles as high as our shoulders.
When you’re small you’re like a piece of white paper with nothing written on it. My father writes down his name in Irish and my mother writes down her name in German and there’s a blank space left over for all the people outside who speak English. We’re special because we speak Irish and German and we like the smell of these new clothes. My mother says it’s like being at home again and my father says your language is your home and your country is your language and your language is your flag. But you don’t want to be special. Out there in Ireland you want to be the same as everyone else, not an Irish speaker, not a German (…).”
(Hugo Hamilton, The Speckled People 2003)

So the clothes of the MUTUAL bear are a symbol for trying to make children “indestructible”.
In MUTUAL this is meant in a figurative sense: We believe that every child has a right to have their culture acknowledged and respected. If this happens the child will feel valued and will be strengthened and prepared for the various challenges in life…
The MUTUAL bear has travelled to…
• a multicultural kindergarten in Graz/Austria,
• two childcare-services in Amsterdam/Netherlands,
• two kindergartens in Kristiansand in Norway,
• a bilingual kindergarten in Osijek in Croatia,
• a kindergarten in Copenhagen/Denmark,
• and to the FEG Bilingual Kindergarten in Iasi/Romania.

 

the mutual bear story

Funded by EU Leonardo 2004-07

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